rindy's posts with tag: on bebe
|  | Inilah hasil foto2 kemarin ke Kebun Raya Bogor. Udah jauh2 ke Bogor rugi dong kalo cuma makan-belanja FO-terus pulang, hehehehe |
 Bebe, hold on tight to Baba, as he will always keep you safe
 And hold on tight to Bubu, as I will always keep you warm
Saya kmaren abis cuti 3 hari, ibu saya pergi ke medan 10 hari, alhasil saya mesti gantian jagain Bebe. Argghh....ternyata dirumah jagain anak printil itu lebih susah dari yang saya bayangin! Kalo yang namanya sabar itu dijual di carrefour saya udah borong deh buat sebulan. Sebenernya sih bukan dikit-dikit saya marah ke Bebe, cuma gemes aja kalo dibilang udah 3x masih dikerjain juga. Yah namanya juga anak umur segitu, apa yang dilarang itu yang dikerjain. Biar saya udah bilang kenceng-kenceng juga mukanya tetep aja ngelengos gak mau liat, pura-pura gak denger. Nah klo udah bgitu, keluarlah aura macan saya  , hihihihi... Maaf ya Be.. Toh ntar malem juga tidurnya pasti nempel ke saya, dan saat dia tidur itulah saya ngerasa bersalah yang sebesar-besarnya. Kok ama anak kecil gak sabaran banget sih. Mending kalo ama anak tetangga, lha ini ama anak sendiri gitu lho. Sumpah saya ngerasa berdosa banget. Bebe sekarang umurnya baru 1,5 taun, tapi rasanya dosa saya ke dia udah setumpuk akibat penyakit ketidaksabaran ini.Nah itu baru urusan ama Bebe, belom urusan dengan pasangan a.k.a bpk. Billy. Saya pernah ngobrol sama sahabat saya, dan saya bilang ke dia, menurut pengalaman saya yang menikah baru seumur jagung ini, kunci kebahagiaan kita berumah tangga itu ikhlas. Ikhlas dalam segala aspek. Istilahnya nih, mau curhat 3 hari 3 malem soal suami/istri kita juga gak akan puas kalo kita belom bisa terima dia apa adanya. Tapi masalahnya adalah, gak gampang terima kekurangan pasangan kita. Apalagi kalo kita tinggal seatap, setiap hari ketemu. Kesalahan sepele juga bisa jadi gede karena udah bosen salah yang itu-itu lagi. Padahal saya ngasih tau temen saya itu, bukan berarti saya udah sukses jadi orang sabar yang ikhlas, tapi untuk ngingetin diri saya sendiri. Bahwa kalo saya terus-terusan begini, gak akan ada abisnya dan gak akan ada selesainya. Hihihihi... jadi boro-boro mau sok tau, masih jauh kaliiii  Jadi gimana caranya biar saya bisa belajar sabar yah? Satu-satunya cara yah tetep sabar, paksain aja bisa gak bisa :p. Nah jadi kalo besok-besok kebetulan liat saya lagi agak "sedikit" ngomel ama Bebe, atau bahkan mungkin ama Babanya, yah namanya juga orang belajar sabar yang lagi on progress 
| | Udah lama juga yah gak posting foto2 bebe, hihihihihi....Long long weekend kmaren pas Kamis dan Jumat libur, kita sempet mengikuti tradisi warga Jakarta yang kalo hari libur jalan2nya ke Ragunan ama Ancol. Berhubung Bebe lagi seneng2nya liat binatang dan udah bisa ngomong "gajah", jadilah kita semangat untuk ngajak dia liat gajah yang asli. Selama ini kan liatnya cuma di film kartun doang :p
Abis dari Ragunan, kita pulang ke lb.bulus sebentar, terus lanjut lagi kepantai. Pokoknya hari itu sukses lah jalan2nya :D (sayang long weekend cuma sekali2) |
Sebenernya pengen bikin tulisan ini pas tanggal 11 Nov 2007, tapi apa daya, hari itu hari Minggu, plus sibuk banget dirumah ama acara ulang taunan si Bebe. Jadi yah sekarang deh baru kesampean :)
Jadi ceritanya, tanggal 11 November setaun yang lalu itu, pas Bebe lahir. Hari Sabtu, tanggal 11, jam 11.15. Sebenernya menurut jam RS. Puri Cinere jam 11.17, tapi begitu dokternya nanya jam ke Billy, dan menurut jam tangan dia masih jam 11.15, akhirnya itu yang dijadiin jam lahir.Sebenernya, Bebe lahir 1 minggu lebih cepet dari perkiraan. Kalau menurut teori hamil 40 minggu, harusnya dia lahir sekitar tanggal 19 Nov. Sedangkan hari Sabtu seminggu sebelumnya, saya dan Billy udah pindah-pindahan dari Lb.Bulus ke Pamulang biar Bebe nanti ada yang jaga kalo saya harus kembali kerja. Saya mulai cuti terhitung tanggal 6 Nov, dengan perhitungan pindahan akan makan waktu sekitar 3-4 hari, dan sisanya dipakai buat istirahat saja. Akhirnya pindahan rumah *eenng...sebenernya pindahan kamar aja sih :D* selesai hari Rabu, gak ketinggalan kamar dicat ungu dulu biar afdol :D. Kamis dan Jumatnya praktis udah gak ada yang dikerjain lagi dirumah, kecuali leyeh-leyeh, tidur-tiduran, sambil main kucing :p. Saat itu saya sempet ngebatin dalem hati, Bebe kalau mau keluar sekarang udah bisa yah. Lebih cepet juga nggak apa-apa, biar bisa lebih lama main ama Bubu sebelum Bubu masuk kantor. :) Daannn....sepertinya si tuyul kecil ini mengerti kalo ibu dan bapaknya udah selesai beres-beres kamar untuk dia, jadilah dia keluar lebih cepet  Hari Sabtu itu, gak ada firasat sama sekali kalo mau ngelahirin. Billy kebetulan ada meeting ama temennya untuk survey lokasi kantor di STC Senayan, jadi saya manis-manis nunggu dirumah. Perut udah gede banget, males mau keluar jalan-jalan. Sekitar jam12an, keluar vlek plus lendir. Saya langsung telpon ke dokter, dan hal pertama yang ditanya dokternya "udah berapa minggu Bu hamilnya?", saya jawab udah 39minggu, terus kata dokternya lagi "wah kalo gitu mungkin emang sudah mau ngelahirin". Dueerr.....rasanya sueeeneeeeng bangeet!!! Gak tergambarkan deh senengnya. Antara excited mau ngelahirin, tapi takut juga kalo ini keliru. Tapi yah jaga-jaga aja seandainya ini bener, saya tidur siang dulu untuk ngumpulin tenaga. Kan konon kabarnya ngelahirin bisa makan waktu yang lama dan tenaga yang nggak sedikit. Kebangun lagi jam3 sore, udah mulai terasa kontraksi-kontraksi kecil. Mama juga mulai keliatan senewen *walopun mukanya sok tenang*. Billy langsung ditelpon suruh pulang, biar bisa anytime berangkat ke rumah sakit. Sekitar jam4, Billy akhirnya sampe rumah sambil agak misuh-misuh. Katanya ngapain sih panik-panik nelepon, kan nunggu pembukaan lengkap bisa berjam-jam...Yee...namanya orang ngelahirin pertama kali ya begitu reaksinya. Dari bangun tidur jam3 sore itu sampe jam 6 sore, kontraksi makin sering dan makin asik rasanya :p. Walaupun saya masih bisa jalan kesana kemari termasuk beresin baju, tapi tetep kalo kontraksinya dateng, rasanyaaaa......TOP! Sebelumnya, selama hamil saya gak takut ama yang namanya ngelahirin. Toh itu proses alami, suka gak suka yang bakal dilewatin juga. Jadi denger temen kantor cerita sakitnya kontraksi, yah cuek aja. Malah ada sedikit penasaran, kaya apa sih rasanya kontraksi? Hehehehe...tengil banget yah.. Ternyata, emang belum ada yang nandingin deh!Lanjut dari jam setengah6, saya minta tolong Billy untuk beliin nasi goreng. Walopun gak laper sama sekali, tapi kan katanya butuh tenaga tuh untuk ngedorong bayinya nanti. Nasi goreng yang lama banget datengnya itu pun akhirnya gak kemakan abis. Lepas dari jam6, kontraksinya makin gak karuan rasanya. Sakitnya lebih dahsyat, sampe keringetan untuk nahan sakit. Nangispun juga rasanya udah gak kuat lagi. Begitu kontraksinya ilang, langsung ngantuk karena tenaga abis. Begitu aja terus. Nah berhubung si nasi goreng tadi gak abis, saya dipaksa makan telor mentah sama VCO satu sendok makan. Katanya bagus untuk doping tenaga. Sebenernya sih bayangin telor mentah rasanya udah wueekk banget, tapi yah gak bisa ngelawan juga, akhirnya telen juga deh. Ternyata not that bad kok, heheheJam setengah9, kontraksi mulai gak beraturan ritmenya. Kadang 5mnt sekali, kadang turun lagi jadi 15mnt sekali. Jadi bingung nih, udah harus berangkat belom yah? Telponlah kita ke dokter, katanya suruh berangkat. Akhirnya saya dan Billy berangkat duluan, Mama belakangan karena dia senewen berat liat anaknya mau ngelahirin, hihihihi....Dia berangkat belakangan ama Rista.
 Sampe rumah sakit, udah gak kuat jalan lagi. Ampun deh rasanya, pinggang pegel setengah mati kaya abis jalan kaki keliling Jakarta, perut juga sakit. Udah gak karuan lah. Gak jelas mana lagi yang lebih sakit. Turun di lobby Puri Cinere, dibawa naik kursi roda sampe ruang periksa. Sampe ruang tindakan, disuruh ganti baju pake kimono rumah sakit yang lebih praktis, langsung scan jantung bayi, lanjut periksa dalem. Ternyata yang namanya periksa dalem itu, sakiiiiiiiiitt.....Bayangin aja tangan suster segede gitu dipaksa masuk ke dalem vagina untuk periksa pembukaan! Rasanya..mantab! Yang bikin susternya heran, ternyata saya udah pembukaan lengkap! Dia heran banget kenapa saya gak ngerasa mules kaya mau pup. Saya juga heran kenapa gak ada mulesnya. Cuma sakit kontraksi aja. Memang sih pas udah sampe rumah sakit itu, kontraksi udah ilang. Mungkin karena udah pembukaan lengkap kali yah. Berarti kan kepala bayi udah ada di posisi paling bawah, siap untuk keluar. Hua....rasanya waktu itu legaaaaa banget. I can push my baby out anytime now!Tapi berhubung kata susternya, dokternya on the way ke rumah sakit dan saya juga belum terasa mules, akhirnya saya nunggu dulu diruang persalinan. Sambil nunggu dokter, saya dipasangin kateter dan dicukur bulu itunya, hihihihihi...Gak lama kemudian air ketuban saya pun pecah. Selama proses itu, Billy setia tanpa takut nemenin disamping saya. Saking santainya, sambil nunggu dokternya dia ngobrol-ngobrol akrab ama suster diruangan situ. Ummm...sempet saya omelin dikit sih, lha wong istri pinggangnya lagi sakit banget, lha dia malah cerewet nanya ini itu  , hehehe..Fast forward pas dokternya udah sampe, sama bidan yang ada diruangan situ, saya disuruh latihan ngeden katanya. Tarik napas, tahan, terus dorong perutnya sambil mata ngeliat ke perut. Dorong sampe 3 kali, baru boleh buang napas. Saya pikir latihan aja dong. Eh ternyata, ini ya udah proses melahirkan! Pas saya mau tarik napas yang kedua kali, dokternya masuk keruang persalinan. Saya pikir dia bakal ngapain kek gitu, taunya dia cuma senderan aja didinding sambil ngeliat kaki saya yang udah diangkat ke sanggahan tempat kaki untuk ngelahirin. Enak juga yah jadi dokter kandungan :p. Lanjut ke tarik-tahan napas & dorong 3x yang kedua, saya mulai keabisan napas. Karena kita harus dorong sekuat tenaga, tapi dalam keadaan tahan napas. Itu rasanya bener-bener kaya keabisan napas. Bayangin kaya kita tenggelem dalem laut yang gak bisa napas  . Disitu saya mulai teriak ke Billy kalo saya gak kuat lagi, ternyata yang namanya ngeden itu capeknya setengah mati. Dokternya berusaha nenangin saya, nawarin teh manis anget, yang langsung saya tolak mentah-mentah :D. Abis itu dia nawarin untuk istirahat dulu, biar saya bisa catch my breath up. Setelah saya siap, lalu saya mulai session ketiga untuk tarik-tahan napas dan dorong. Gak disangka-sangka yang ketiga kali ini, Bebe langsung keluar!! Asli dia keluar, menurut Billy yang ngeliat dari samping saya, keluarnya Bebe bukan pelan-pelan, tapi langsung lompat aja gitu dari vagina. Dia ditangkep ama dokternya, bukan ditarik pelan-pelan setelah bahunya keliatan. Hihihihi..emang udah ada bakat pecicilan kayanya.
Sejujurnya nih, pas Bebe keluar, saya gak ngerasa apa-apa sama sekali. Begitu dia udah keluar, terus digunting tali arinya, saya pun di jahit *yang saya udah gak sempet nanya berapa jahitan ke dokternya*. Setelah itu dia dibersihin, diadzanin, dimasukin inkubator biar anget, lalu ditaro diperut saya untuk menyusui dan kenalan ama puting ibunya.
Bebe lahir dengan berat 2,6kg, panjang 46cm. Tergolong mungil, mengingat saya waktu hamil segede ikan hiu, hehehe.... Mama dan Rista yang nungguin diluar langsung nangis terharu, yang satu jadi Eyang, yang satu jadi tante. 
Abis selesai dijahit dan segala urusan administrasi, saya masih harus nunggu sebentar di ruang persalinan. Karena masih ada rasa bius lokal, saya langsung telpon dan ngabarin Vian. Over excited banget waktu itu. Walaopun sih rasa sakitnya juga masih inget banget dikepala. Waktu itu yang ada dikepala saya, Krisdayanti kok kuat yah punya anak 4? Kan ngelahirin sakitnya setengah mati. Huehehehe...Dasar orang ngawur, kenapa coba mesti Krisdayanti? Lagian dia kan anaknya 2, bukan 4. Ngaco aja....Yah bgitulah kalo orang lagi teler .
Malem itu Bebe tidur diruang bayi dulu, sementara saya dan Billy semaleman gak bisa tidur, mikirin kalo kita baru aja resmi jadi orang tua. Kalo diitung-itung, total kontraksi saya yang sakit sampe pembukaan lengkap, itu cuma dari jam 6 sampe jam 9. Berarti cuma 3 jam! Sementara orang yang ngelahirin pertama kali, normalnya bisa berbelas-belas jam. Saya nggak bisa lebih bersyukur lagi.
Empat hari kemudian, baru dapet nama untuk Bebe, Maryam Viabel Sadina. Yang artinya, seorang anak perempuan yang mampu memiliki kebaikan di dunia dan di akhirat.
11 November 2006, was a truly historical day for me. It was the day when I felt like I just won a battle, and be a complete woman. 11 November, one year ago, I whispered on her ear; "welcome to the world Be..."
| | Acara ulang taun 'Bebe kmaren dibagi dua, siang untuk keluarga, dan malem untuk orang2 surau. Kenapa dibagi dua, karena rumahnya gak muat lah yaaa....hehehe |
| | last day as an 11month old baby |
| Start: | Nov 11, '07 | | Location: | Jakarta |
akhirnya bebe ultah yg pertama juga! oom2 dan tante2, tolong nabung dari sekarang ya :D
| | Aah...ini foto2 Bebe paling baru, taken last weekend, 8-9 September 2007. Lokasi di lapangan badminton surau, bebe puaaasss main sana sini. Rambut di iket dua, biar gak awut2an. Udah rambut keriting, punya kebiasaan suka garuk2 kepala pula! Belom bisa jalan gak masalah, kan bisa ngerangkak :) Tinggal pas pulang celana ama dengkulnya dekil abis, hehehe....
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 Ahh...time flies so fast I could barely notice. It feels like yesterday when I left Bebe for work for the first time after she was born to this world. I remember at that time, she was only 3 months old, I cried silently in the angkot on my way to the office. I felt a horribly guilty feeling for leaving her at home only with my mom, and made her had to drink formula milk since my own breast milk supply wasn't enough for her.
And now..she's almost 10 months old. She'll be officially 10 months by tomorrow, and I'm more than sure, before I know it, I'll be celebrating her first birthday!
Until the moment I write this, I'll be honest to myself, that I do complain a lil this and that to myself and to other people. Normal complains like most of young and impatient mothers out there would make. Complains like how tired I am when I have to hold her hands up so she could walk, how impatient I would get when she started playing with her food, how I would mad at her when she's crying in the middle of her sleep, and the one that I often brag about is when Bebe wants to be carried around by me simply because she felt too tired to walk, or she felt like being held in my arms  . There are also stages in her life I can take note of, like at the early months of her life, she hadn't recognize anyone yet including her parents, she would gladly be carried around with everyone. Things changed when she's about 6 months old. During that time, she already recognized me and Billy and my mom as the people she's familiar with. Thus, if any stranger tried to get near her, or take her in their arm she would cry. There were also a stage when she would accept a stranger's presence near her, but she should see faces that are familiar with her. If any of us had lost out of her sight, she'd scream and cry . But lately, I've noticed that she doesn't mind with other people presence, and doesn't mind being carried around with people she never met before, even though me or Billy have disappear from her sight. Well it seems as she gets older, she has more courage and know how to blend in with the society. To add another milestone that she had met, was a tooth surfaced about 3 days ago. So it was on Friday, Sept 7 if I'm not mistaken. I'm soooo..excited to see a tooth coming! My baby can chew now
Later on as she gets older (and bigger), I realize the time will come when she feels that she's big enough to be carried around. There will come a phase in her life, when she enjoys walking on her own feet instead of being carried, when she'll happily running around here and there playing with her peer, and then there's time when she's just too big to be carried.
 I know when that time comes, my baby girl is no longer a baby, and I could no longer carry her around. I will have to face the fact that she's a growing human, and will keep on getting older and more mature, until I have to let her go to have her own life. That, I think will be the hardest phase for me as a mother.
So now, for every mother out there who thinks that your baby is making you feel frustrated more and more each day, adding wrinkles to your face, causing your hair curlier, my advice is to enjoy what you can enjoy now. Because this moment will never return to us. In the future, we will look back and embrace this moment. I do believe that every moment in life has its own beautiful memories, but the memories of our baby's childhood times is the most beautiful one. I know I believe in this. So today I will go home and see my baby, and be grateful to God for giving me the most beautiful baby I've even seen in my life .
ps. no protest for the last statement please. I'm the mother, of course she's the most beautiful baby for me
| | Bebe came along with Bubu, tante Vian, Ayu and Wulan to Bogor last Saturday. Too bad lil Alya's not feeling well, so she had to stay at home :( But anyway, the short trip was fun and she was very happy. Bebe Bubu and Baba stayed over at Om Musa and Tante Nita's house that Saturday night, where she again was enjoying a very good time playing with Kakak Salsa and Kakak Takya. So happy even when Salsa and Kya were both already asleep, she stayed awake and slept at 11.30pm :) While I was exhausted when I got at their house, Bebe seemed to have plenty of energy and didn't look tired at all! The next day we went to Time Zone Citos. It was a great weekend, something I wish I could have on every weekend. *dreaming* |
 Bebe, at almost 7 months old, and nearly never got cough or cold finally suffered from cough, cold and fever last week. Left is the picture of the first antibiotic she took in her life.
Didn't get that from her doctor, but luckily me and billy have friends who's a doctor and a pharmacist, so they're the ones who suggested the antibiotic. Talk about saving time, and money. The Cefadroxil worked great, she's getting better after took it for 3days. The only problem was giving her the medicines. She always fought back, because she didn't like lying on her back, so it had to take two persons, one for holding her and the other one to drop the medicines on her mouth. And everytime she's receiving her medicines, she would cry and screamed so loud that probably our neighbors thought we were doing something bad to her . Thank God she's getting much better now. She has to, because Bubu will take her out and about on Saturday with Aunti Vian, Aunti Wulan, Aunti Ayu and Baby Alya! Sorry Baba, we have to leave you at home now, because it's girls day out!
While Mom's away to Bali until Friday, and I can't take leave from work (well, actually I can, but I just won't) Billy's staying at home to babysit Bebe for 4 days straight! Just him alone. It means he can't go anywhere far until Friday. I was a little worried at first, about whether he knows how to feed her, etc etc. But I guess everything works out just fine, because he never called me during the day to ask for anything.
But I was surprised when I called him this morning, and asked what Bebe's doing. He said that she's having her breakfast of 3-spoon of rice cereal and 1 rusk! All in one meal time. That's a heavy meal!! She usually only takes about 3-spoon of rice cereal or 1,5 rusk per meal time. Although it seemed that she looked okay, didn't show any bad sign, but I was worried and felt funny at the same time. Worried because I'm affraid her digestive system hasn't develope the ability to digest that amount of food, but also funny because he wanted his baby to eat a lot!
Nevertheless, it's another reason to love my hubbie . How many father in this planet who would do all the things that he's been doing in taking care of our baby? It's not an easy job, it can be gross, tiring and it sure takes a lot of patience to deal with babies since we can't understand their language. But he's doing a marvelous job, a job that many father would avoid from, and he does it good! I'm proud of you hon!
Yippee..!!
It's June 11th, meaning that Bebe's officially 6 months today. Pffuiihh...I can't believe that it's been 6 months since she was born. Time passes fast. And I'm sure before I know it, she's ready for school!
I got tons to write about her, even a book wouldn't be enough. She's transforming from our little baby, she weighs 2,6kg and 46cm height when she was born, to a very cute little baby who always has extra energy. She can't keep stand still or just sit still without that little hand busy grabbing things or making sounds. She likes to yell, making funny voices, and playing with her lips. I think she's exploring them all now. She likes to make different sounds, puts a cute gesture with her face and lips and all other things that make people around her laugh all the time. She sure is a bundle of joy. She has become the center of me and Billy's life. We can't stop talking about her when she's asleep, and where ever we go, we always make a stop bye at the baby section. Whether at the grocery store, especially at clothing store. You can tell that she's always on our mind. Other than that, she's also now developing the ability to try to stand on her on feet. Though the feet are not strong enough to support her body yet, but she likes to stand very much. So whenever we're playing together, she wants me to hold her so she can stand. I guess she can't wait to walk. Same thing goes for sitting, she always try to seat. But she's not strong enough to keep her upper body straight. My oh my, I can't believe she's so active in just 6 months old, dont know what she'll be when she's 10 months. But seeing what she can do now, I believe we're all gonna have a aching weist once she starts walking. And how cute that's gonna be...I can't wait to see that.. My little baby's starting to walk....
| | introducing newest member of the family...maryam viabel sadina... she was born on Saturday night, November 11, 2006 at 11.17 pm. So yes, she's a scorpion! just another scorpion in the family. the meaning behind her name is : seorang anak perempuan yang mampu memiliki kebaikan dunia dan akhirat. just as any parents in d world would pray for! as for her nickname, me and billy want her to be called as "Abel", but because we call her bebe since she was a fetus inside my womb, so everyone's calling her bebe too now. Doesn't really matter anyway, whether people are calling her Abel or Bebe, because for us, she will always be our bebe :) |
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