Le Dernier: Maksudnya the latest. If I'm not mistaken that's the French of English's the Latest.

I can't be more exciting to know that my happily newlywed friend, Ruli and Dodo, that Ruli's test pack result's showing positive sign! Congratulation!! They were married on April 14th, went honeymoon to Bali not long after the wed, and now a positive sign for pregnancy! That must have been a successfull honeymoon they had . Ruli called me on lunch time to tell the happy news, and ask me not to tell anyone yet. She will announce the pregnancy once she has gone to the doctor. She was consulting with me which doctor's best to see in Puri Cinere Hospital. As far as I know, I feel most comfortable with Dr. Winahyo. Not only he's old meaning well-experienced, but he's a kinda doctor who doesnt give you a bunch of vitamins to swallow daily. I had a session with dr. Dewi, dr. Alfiben when dr. Winahyo was on leave, and I just didn't feel that comfortable. So I let her to take the decision. She's confused, just like me when I was first searching for doctor. Dodo wanted to take her to RSB. Asih, but Ruli thinks that Asih is just too far from their house, it's impractical, not to mention when the delivery time comes and they have to deal with the traffic jam on the road. Whereever they decided, I'm sure that what's best for Ruli. It's ought to be so, you have to have faith in your doctor when you're pregnant.
As I know none of my high school friend have an account on multiply, I feel free to write it here. No one will read about it. Hehehe... Oh jeez..it feels like high school was just yesterday.

About Vian, tomorrow's her latest day at the office before she's jetting off to Hamburg. Where she'll spend about 2weeks holiday with beau JD. Am sure gonna miss her. Looking forward to have her back here, so I can spend another lunch time together, though we're sleeping most in our lunchtime instead of actually eating lunch . Talk about lack of sleep! People like me and Vian can never really get enough sleep I guess.

I had a very sunshine morning today. It's friday, everything's nice, and tomorrrow's weekend. So what's not great about that?? But all that good feeling just vanished when I chatted with one of my highschool best friend, Reynie.

She opened a conversation by asking for my prayers, which made me wondering if there's anything wrong. She then explained that yesterday she just had a 4D USG for her 20 weeks pregnancy and found that there's a fluid in a size of tear drops in the baby's brain. How it breaks my heart out..... I've been there, I know what is feels like when you're pregnant and check your pregnancy each month to the doctor. The undescribeable feeling when you see your baby through the USG computer screen. And how relief you are when the doctor says everything's normal. And how worry you can be when the doctor says there's something unsual. When I asked her the cause of the tear-drop size fluid, she said it's because the excessive amniotic fluid. How does the amniotic fluid get excessive like that? It's because the baby's throat that doesnt work normally leading to lack of nutrient absorbancy causing the excessive amniotic fluid. And it's hard to tell why the baby's throat doesnt function normally. I guess it's all has been God's will with His very own reason.

And until the pregnancy reaches 28 to 32 weeks, there's nothing they can do about it. Because by then, the doctor can really tell does the fluid in the brain gets bigger or not. If its growing and keep adding, then they can decide what to do about it. But until then, all my friend can do is praying everything will do just fine. The doctor advice her to do her activities like usual, keep on eating healthily, etc etc.

And there's nothing that I can do either, other then praying to God for her safe pregnancy until the labor time has come (the doctor has told her she has to do the c-section, for the sake of her and her baby) and the mother and baby will always be in a good condition.

Congratulation Ain!

She had safely gave birth to a healthy baby boy yesterday, on April 25th, 16.50 pm. The baby boy's weight is 3,45kg and height's 50cm. She had a normal delivery at RS. Asih.

I'm planning to visit her after work, probably today or tomorrow. I can't wait to see the baby, assuming he's looking more like Ain then Drevi because a baby boy usually looks like his mom.
Talk about Drevi, sorry I didnt congrats you :) But I wanna congrats you know, cause you are now have a new very very important role of your life, being a daddy!

As a mom who also had a normal delivery myself, I know more and less of what Ain had to go through before the baby's popping out :) All the efforts and pain that can take hours. But trust me, it's true what people say, all the hurt just dissappear when you see your baby! Suddenly all the pain and hurt you have to go through during process become a very meaningless effort. Realizing that God trusts and gives you the most precious gift every couple can ask for, a baby.

So congratulations to both of you now. I know you both will enjoying every second being a parent. Enjoy parenthood guys!